Long Distance. I Hate It.

just found out i'm a super sensitive girl who gets uncomfortable and pissed over the tiniest little things. today i'm talking bout relationships. Actually, Long Distance Relationship.

what forms a long distance relationship?
mostly when the bf/gf decides to study overseas and either one have to stay behind.

what happens then?
bf and gf are separated, pain of missing one another are endures, lots of money are spent on phonecards and lots of time in front of the computer screen (although they do have a lot of fun just talking).

anything else?
yes, gf gets extremely jealous over small, pathetic things like when some girl gets close to bf. gf gets mad and bf patiently comforts and reassures gf that nth's going on and that they are JUST FRIENDS.

all guys say that when their gfs accuse them of liking someone else or anything similar to that. EVEN if it is not true. after talking with several guys, they told me that they would tell their gfs that they are just friends even if they do have feelings for the third party. (not talking bout you melvin, justwanna share my opinions) They ALL say that to avoid trouble and confrontation. or yeah maybe it's just exciting for them to have someone new to play with.

however, there are guys who genuinely don't have feelings for other girls. they really are friends. close friends.

i think there are reasons why some bfs/gfs get easily jealous in these situations. me, for one, DO NOT BELIEVE in a girl and a guy being really close friends who hangs out with each other often would not develope feelings for one another. ONE of them is bound to feel that. that is from my point of view. althout i do believe that they can be JUST FRIENDS. when a couple is separated by the ocean so far far far FAR away, they tend to get insecure because they are not there to take care of their bf/gf. they can't see their loved one's friends in real life, not knowing how they are, if they're friendly (or overfriendly) or not..

not only that, i KNOW people who actually go ahead for the particular guy or girl even when they know that that particular person has a bf/gf, especially if they're far far far FAR away! obviously, the bf/gf is in an unstable, weak condition.. not reassured with their other halves being so far away.. not knowing what their loved ones are actually thinking.. if the same thing is happening to them.. obviously, anyone would want the easy way out. but i'm telling those people who steal other ppl's bf/gfs away, they did it to their ex-es, what makes u think that they won't do it to u??

and some people, they might get desperate and develope urges to have thirst for physical affections. all they can do is control themselves and not be like animals. if u really love your partner, u would know not to do anything to jeopardize your relationships. although i just read from cosmopoliton that there is such a thing as a .. damn can't find the mag. it's something like an open relationship where both the gf and bf know about stuff tat they do with other ppl. intimate stuff. where they can set limits and stuff. so, they can have fun without being seen as cheating. but being such a jealous person that i am, i don't ever want to try that.

hmmm, i don't know what i'm trying to say. just want to express my views. ciao.
ps long distance is not easy.. i hate it..