Thursday, October 26, 2006

Good and Bad Relationships.

you have a bf/girlfriend and yet u snap at your friend of the opposite sex when he/she tells you about this person he/she likes. or every other person.

you have a bf/girlfriend but yet u are ashamed of him/her.

you have a bf/girlfriend but he/she cheats on you.

your bf/ gf loves you but you couldn't care more bout his/her feelings.

you have a bf/girlfriend but he/she doesn't love or appreciate you.

you have a bf/girlfriend but you lie to him/her.

i hate relationships when i see or hear bout these things.
i wouldn't know if anyone else is doing this to me. am i to blame for thinking this if i know stuff like this happens?

and i hate this the most,
you love your bf and he loves you back, but u're so far apart. (maybe that's why we still love each other so much)


the irony...

however,

i love relationships when i see or hear bout these thing..


your bf plans and prepares the best date ever. flowers, classy restaurants, gentlemen-ness..

your bf/gf makes sure that everything goes well and goes through all measures just so that you would have the perfect birthday, and most importantly, to see you smile and happy.

your bf/gf surprises you with sweet gestures, small but sweet and memorable none the less.

your bf/gf practices cooking your favourite meal till it's perfect.

and the obvious,

your bf/gf helps, motivates, trusts, cares when it meant the most and

appreciates each other.

ok maybe it's those negative things on top there that makes the bottom things there more memorable and valuable.

see ya next time!

5 comments:

Blurry D said...

Yea long distance relationship kills..I know how it feels it killed me...

Chai Yee Lyn said...

aww, u in long distance too? yeha it sucks doesn't it..

Anonymous said...

Yup.. how IRONIC! the stupidest thing is we only realize how good we have had it when it is gone.. when its too late.. y is it we r so blind to see the things we have.. and learn to appreciate it?

Chai Yee Lyn said...

to loris,i don't know. I REALLY DON'T! WHAt's WRONG WITH THE PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD?!?!?!?!? ARRRRRRRRGHHHHHH!.. i'm so pissed. and u know hwat, people are blind! so BLIND! like so oblivious to what they have. and see only what they can't have. urgh.

Chai Yee Lyn said...

hmm, Goh. yeah u're right. it's got nothing to do with me. yeah eelin, let it be. :)